Something For The One-Sided Lovers
Here is something that all of you need to do for your happiness.
I think this is love, we are meant to be together.
- The lover
Falling in love for someone is a natural feeling and sometimes beyond our control. I guess, we have all been in a situation where the other person may not feel the same way but we are already falling head-over-heels for them.
There is nothing wrong in being in one-sided love, it’s one of the best places to be (only if you keep your expectations in check)
Here are a few things that I feel every one-sided lover needs to understand to be happy and free:
1. Give It Time
You may have fallen for someone in a minute, or an hour or a day. Give it some time, many people confuse infatuation with love and what you may be feeling might very well be just a rush of hormones which would subside if given enough time.
If after a while, the feelings still exist or grow further then its time to pursue them and come clean.
2. Do Not Force It
If it’s meant to be it will happen, do not force it. The other person never asked you to fall for them, the feeling that you have may never be reciprocated and you have to understand this to keep yourself happy.
RESPECT their decision. Be HAPPY in their HAPPINESS and wish the best for them.
3. We Are All Humans
Every human deserves to be loved, so do you. Always remember, if you’re giving out love to the world then there’s nothing for you to lose. All the love that you are giving out will come back to you in many folds and in ways which you least expect.
Don’t ever start developing the feeling of hate for yourself. If this one person didn’t love you back, it doesn’t mean that you are unworthy of love.
You deserve Love, all of us do.
Every human deserves to be Loved.
4. Self-Love is Important
The key to finding the love of your life is to start falling in love with yourself. Love the person that you are, love your personality, love your body, come on love yourself for who you are. Trust me, you won’t regret.
Remember, you are one of a kind and the whole world doesn’t have an exact copy of you lying around, you are special. Start realizing it. Once you are in love with yourself, you’ll be the best version you can be and the world will be able to see it.
5. Let them go
This is not only for the one-sided lovers but for every lover out there.
If you’ve loved them with all your heart and the other person cannot give you the love that you deserve, then it’s time for you to let them go. It’s time to free them and you don’t have to feel c*ap about it.
Remember if your love was genuine, it’s the other person who’s losing someone who truly loved them and you are only losing someone who didn’t love you for who you are.
When you free them from this you are also freeing yourself up for the love of your life to find its way to you.
6. Our Life is Ours and Only Ours
I have seen humans happy and I’ve seen them sad. Trust me, we all look beautiful when we are happy and smiling. This is your life and it is your responsibility to make the most out of it. Don’t hold back on your wishes, do what you always wanted to do, life is unpredictable and every breath counts.
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Be happy and spread happiness, try to make at least 1 human feel good about themselves and you’ll see wonders in your life. You’ll have the ultimate satisfaction at the end of the day.
Let me tell you one last thing — you, yes you (the one reading this) YOU ARE AWESOME. Go ahead if you don’t believe me, smile and see how beautiful you look
:)
